It is one of things as you said you should have never needed to write. Its so sad, especially when it can be prevented and even reversed if the person wanted it to happen. I hear of this illness many times, I also have friends going thru the same thing. As parents we can often introduce our children to alcohol way to early maybe not realising that just maybe later in life they do in fact become to live with it, and not without it.
I so hope you find peace in the knowledge that she will rest in peace. The saddest part is knowing it will eventually take a young life away far too soon. You have my deepest sympathy. I hope you are able to continue on your own path in life and know that you did everything you could to help her. Sadly it wasn't to be. Stay strong my friend. To our wonderful friend, Brig and I have both wept with you at this desperate time.
You have touched us for so many years with your wit, honesty and passion for, not only crafting but, seemingly, life itself. You never fail to brighten our day when you're on Hochanda and when we get to see you at craft events, simply, because you make time for everyone that comes to see you, showing a genuine interest in what they're doing and a joyful passion for sharing what you do, which is why we've been so heart broken at the pain you must be feeling.
Your decision to open your heart must have been very painful but, at the same time, very brave and selfless. It may make others look inside themselves and ask themselves, honestly, 'can I live without this drink? A few years ago we lost a good friend who, in the end, was turned into a monster by her addiction before it finally took her life.
Crafting may seem a million miles away at the moment but maybe, when you feel that passion once again, you will begin to heal. Love and hugs. Brig and Dave xxxxxxx. So desperately sorry for your loss and the terrible pain you have been going through.
A sister can never be replaced, and just now even your vitality and humour are not going to be enough. I've missed you on Hochanda, but hoped there was a positive reason you were away. I'm very sad that it isn't the case. All your friends you know and don't know will wish you well as you struggle to get through this.
Much love to you and your bereaved family. My heart goes out to you and your family, dear Leonie. We have not met, but I feel like I know you from seeing you so many times on craft TV. Just wanted you to know that I am holding you in love and prayer.
Love, Helen. Oh, Leonie Nothing we can say will help at this moment but I hope it helps just to know we are all still thinking of you. You have to stop with the ifs and buts and listen to all the people who I'm sure are telling you there was nothing more you could do. Easier said than done, I know. I'm guessing that the family issues which kept you so busy over the past months were connected with Marianne and that is what you did Now it's time to stop wondering and to be strong in the knowledge that Charlie and his daddy and his grandparents - and his Aunty Leonie - will be fine.
Because it's evident to everyone that you are strong together. So much credit to you for handling the circumstances with such grace - your letter is heartbreaking but beautiful in its way.
And perhaps, just perhaps, it might make another person stop and think before falling into the trap. Lots of love x x x. Leonie, I am so very sorry to hear your terribly sad news. I couldn't imagine loosing my sister. I am sending all my thoughts and prayers your way.
Lean on the people who love you and never be afraid to ask for help. I agree alcoholism is a disease and that once it has you in it's grasp it is so hard to escape. My thoughts are with you and your family. Dear Leonie, You have been through so much,but you keep smiling!
I have watched you grow from the young girl standing in for Dawn to blossoming into the woman you are now. You have had heartache in the past and now it is hitting you again. I watched my niece die of breast cancer 8 years ago after fighting for 3years. The worst thing is not being able to change things!
We will never know why. My son is struggling at the moment with so many unanswered questions after losing his Dad two months ago me too! I wish you peace in the years ahead and pleasure in watching your little nephew grow. Yesterday my niece had a baby and suddenly life seems a little brighter!
Take care of yourself! I will be thinking of you. Sorry about your loss, Leonie. Remember that your sister, Marianne, lived life to the full and alcohol was one of her few pleasures.
My mother, Marian, said the same about cigarettes and she suffered from cancer. My mother really tried to quit. I wish she had. I might have had a few more years with her. It's sad that your sister kept her addiction a secret from you. It's hard for you that she was younger than you. Remember the happy times and the things that made you both laugh so hard, your sides nearly split. Kind regards. Oh Leonie so sorry to hear this. You write of your experience with great insight. It's a hard, life changing experience and the ripple effect is extensive.
It's particularly hard afterwards and the constant thought intrusions of the iffs and buts is relentless. We wonder why we couldn't say the exact perfect sentence that would flick the switch of change.
We expect soooo much of ourselves, this wouldn't necessarily be so with other conditions and yet we expect to save someone close from a very complicated, all consuming disease. I wish you peace, acceptance and all the love from your lovely family and friends. Post a Comment. Monday, 28 May My Sister People have been asking where I am, and how lovely , they have been worried about me, so I knew I had to do a post, as not everyone follows Facebook.
Devestatingly, on the 29th May, my beautiful sister, Marianne, passed away. She was only 39, and leaves her husband, gorgeous little boy, and so many friends. Marianne was my fun loving younger sister, who loved to dance and party even more than me! She was my festival buddy, my partner in crime. She travelled with me doing craft fairs, and supported me when I left my job to start on my crafty career.
We had so many adventures. She even asked for me to be there when Charlie was born, which was such a honour. She was sensitive, caring and funny. We all drank and danced and often took it to the edge - and beyond! But some people get ill with alcohol. They have an allergy to it, and it kills them. Alcoholism is patient. It takes its time. It comes and it goes as it pleases for years. But every time, it grips you just a little bit tighter and pulls you into its trap just a little bit further.
Sadly, a year ago it became very apparent she was poorly, and I know Marianne battled with it. I know she tried. Alcoholism has nothing to do with a lack of will power! I think secretly Mandy is actually wonder woman haha, she better not change this bit!! Mandy used to work in the corporate world, but has left all that to join me in our little venture.
We are now venturing into the online live workshops and demonstrations, growing our website, and hopefully will one day be attending the craft shows! Thank you again for stopping by.
Please don't hesitate to contact us if you've any questions, or just want to say hello xxx. Close search. About us. Welcome to our little web site, run by the amazing Mandy - with Leonie doing her crafty bit now and again!!
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